Ladies!!!! Respect yourself

Respect yourself because if you don’t, others WON’T do it for you”

The more you underestimate your worth, the more others will ignore your value. The less you respect yourself, the less others will respect you. I always see women saying that there are NO good men but you FIRST have to ask yourself, “Am I a good woman?”

In this life, you will attract the lifestyle that you live.

You can’t have nothing but expose parts of your body on in your profile pictures and expect a man to respect you. You can’t go home with different guys every weekend after the club, and expect a man to respect you.

If you want respect, you have carry yourself with respect.

I always hear women say, “I can’t dress sexy without being labeled or without having a guy trying to feel all up on me.” It’s not always about what you’re wearing, but how you carrying yourself while doing so. The same dress that is classy can easily turn into trashy, depending how you conduct yourself while in it.

Two ladies can take revealing photos. While one could be considered “artistic & beautiful,” the other could be considered “nasty & inappropriate.” Same amount of clothes, so what makes the difference?

The only difference is the way each woman is carrying herself.

Look, most times, you’re going to get most exactly what you give off. So if you want better, make sure you’re “that same better” you want when a man is looking for a woman.

I guarantee there are a lot of bad men in this world, but I can also guarantee another thing, there are also a lot of good men.

Side Note: Ladies, if you plan on getting sloppy drunk, which you shouldn’t but if you do, don’t wear short skirts so that when you’re falling all over the place, you’re showing the whole club what should be kept private.

A GOOD MAN does not want what the world has already seen!

If all the men that you have ever dated were JERKS and you met them at the club, what makes you think you are going to find someone different this time around?

Make your surroundings/environments “different” so you can hopefully find “different.”

-jacobs adeyemi